Although I like to add extra time into my wedding day schedules, there are still times when events run behind. It could be traffic, over sleeping, extra long hair appointments, or simple procrastination that slows things down. Sometimes, it’s miscommunication that causes the problem. That’s what today’s blog is about – letting your family and friends know when they’re having their pictures taken.

Often, family pictures are taken before the ceremony so that the bride and groom don’t leave their guests for too long between the church and the reception. It’s a great way to manage time and keep things running smoothly once the day truly begins. However, there are plenty of times when we’ve been held up by MIA mothers and fathers. Parents feel it is their responsibility to watch over everything on the day of their child’s wedding and are often running around taking care of last minute details. But if pictures (and keeping to your schedule) are important to you, be sure to stress this to your parents and request that they are at the picture taking site on time, if not early. It might even help to appoint a reliable relative to keep them on track and on time. Your wedding should be fun and relaxing for both you and your parents.


Occasionally, couples request extended family pictures after the ceremony. They want their aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins in the formal family pictures. If this sounds like something you’re interested in, be sure to communicate your plans to all of your family members (and your photographer!) before the day of the wedding. If you wait until the day of the event, chances are someone will miss the invitation. Family pictures just aren’t the same if Uncle Bob has already taken Grandma to the reception. And waiting for twenty family members to be rounded up takes a while. Again, assigning a trusted cousin or aunt to corral the entire family is a good idea. You don’t need the stress of counting cousins to make sure everyone is there.

In the end, it comes down to keeping the stress out of your day. If everyone knows the schedule and understands your desire to follow it, chances are things will run smoothly. If not, refer to last week’s blog – Don’t Sweat the Small (or Big) Stuff!
